Showing posts with label push presents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label push presents. Show all posts

07 July 2008

Nothing says 'I love you' like a big, fat diamond

Looks like Nicole Kidman is getting a 'push' present, you know, the new, very consumerist version of a very old American ritual in which women get gifts for giving birth.

Except, Nic is getting a $73,000 Cartier Trinity band which is apparently 'very symbolic'.

Is there a pair of diamond earrings waiting in the wings for an extra long labour?



Source: http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/w/star/n433100/news/Keith-Urban-s-labour-ring.html
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/06/fashion/06push.html

04 October 2007

'Push' presents: pop out a baby, get a diamond necklace?

If you thought pregnancy and birth couldn't be commodified any more...

Apparently, in the US (read: New York) “push presents” — have become standard and expected after the birth of a child as a reward for a 'job well done' usually in the form of expensive jewelry. According to the Today show, certain department stores in New York actually have push present registries so cashed up fathers can buy their wives some post-birth bling. High-end jeweler Fortunoff has an entire range of pieces made specifically for the 'new mum'.

I'm not sure how I feel about this. On one hand, considering women have to carry around another human for 9 months and then squeeze it out, a little recognition doesn't seem so bad. However, if you watch the video of the segment on the link below, some women 'expect' to have jewelry or some expensive item for a 'job well done' after they give birth and this just reeks of unnecessary middle-class materialism. What if a woman's 'natural' birth doesn't go to plan? If she has a caesarean does that mean she only gets to have 1 carat diamond necklace instead of the 3 carat diamond ring? Is a woman's worth contingent upon her ability to have a 'good' birth?

Give me a break.

Source: http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/21101071/
 
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